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Good Morning! My name is Natasha Know-It-All and I’m a reporter with the Raving Reviews News. Today, we have tracked down the extremely busy President & Founder of RAVE REVIEWS BOOK CLUB, Nonnie Jules. We asked if she could spare a few moments for a quick Q&A and surprisingly, to our delight, she said “YES!” Although she has limited this to only a 6 Q&A session, we’re happy to have that! Any little bone she’s willing to throw at us, we’re willing to run after it! Ms. Jules rarely gives interviews so sit back, relax and take it all in! Here is her take on quality vs quantity. #Winning
Natasha: Hello, Ms. Jules! Sharing that I’m so excited to be sitting down with you today would be a great understatement! I am ecstatic, so thank you, thank you, thank you for this!
Nonnie: Oh, you’re very welcome. ‘Tis my pleasure to chat with you, as well.
Natasha: OK, I know how busy you are, so let’s get right down to business; just a few questions that came to me last night while doing my research for this sit-down. I have followed your organization since its inception and if I can remember correctly, at one point, your membership was well over 600. Can you tell us why you’re around the 400 mark today?
Nonnie: I’d love to share that with you, Ms. Know-It-All…or, would you prefer that I call you Natasha?
Natasha: Natasha would be fine, thank you (as she rolls her eyes).
Nonnie: Great! When I started RRBC, our membership was FREE. At that time, we were pushing heavily the fact that when you added your name to our roster, every other member on the roster was strongly encouraged to #follow you on social media. It got to the point that folks were joining us simply to grow their followers list. It was disheartening to know that there were unscrupulous people out there who would go to such lengths just to grow their followers. Well, they’d come on board, do absolutely nothing for the club or within the club, show no support for their fellow members and then they’d leave. When I was completely fed up with these characters, we decided that we would begin charging a fee for membership, a small one, but one nonetheless. I knew that this would weed out the riff-raff from the serious authors and readers who wanted to truly belong to a community of support, so our fee of $25/annually was instated. We had much email from members (new and old) who said they would gladly spend more for all that they received, or was offered here. We still have those today who choose not to renew their membership, and for a great majority of those, they joined, put their name on our roster, did absolutely nothing within the club, then looked around one day and said “Hmmm, what is this club doing for me? No one is reading and reviewing my book.” Well, if you put absolutely nothing in, you probably weren’t getting much out.
Natasha: OK. Were you disappointed to see your numbers fall?
Nonnie: (Laughing) Not at all, Natasha! Actually, I was excited! I’m all about quality and not quantity. I’m not the author who wants to be known for writing MANY books, I’m the author who wants to be known for writing GREAT books, and if that is only ONE great book, I’m happy with that! All organizations go thru change in membership and if you’ve ever belonged to any, you would know that this kind of change is typical. I want only the best in my organization and if that means I have only 10 great members as opposed to 100 bits of riff-raff, I’d feel blessed that I had the 10!
Natasha: It’s pretty evident that you have some folks who have been with you for quite some time. Why do you think they stick around?
Nonnie: I have a great many board members, ex-board members, and members who have been here for a very long time, some since day one. These authors (for the most part) realize the importance of community, and they’ve never found anything like RRBC before. Authors supporting one another instead of competing against each other? That’s unheard of! But, it’s what we do and it is why our core of supportive members remain. AND, they also see the great benefits to membership here…and those benefits are numerous and all GRAND!
Natasha: Would you mind sharing the names of some of those awesome members you speak of above? We’d like to get to know them ourselves!
Nonnie: Of course! Bruce A. Borders, Shirley Harris-Slaughter, Beem Weeks and Marlena Hand have been with me practically since the very beginning and you could count them among the founding members group. Bruce and Shirley are now retired, LIFETIME Board Members, but they are always willing and ready to jump in whenever they are called upon. I can’t leave without mentioning some of our other awesome-tastic members, as well: Joy Nwosu Lo-Bamijoko, Peggy Hattendorf, Bette A. Stevens, Nicholas Rossis, Michelle Abbott, Rhani D’Chae, Linda Mims, Jennifer Hinsman, Jan Sikes, Gordon Bickerstaff, Karen Ingalls, and so many more, and a great big shout-out to those especially supportive newer members, that I’m sure I’ve failed to mention (but you know who you are, and I want you to say so down below!)
Natasha: Well, OK! That’s quite a list! What makes these members stand out from some of your past members who you would tag as riff-raff?
Nonnie: Natasha, these members stand out in my mind because they are so supportive of everyone else. Their timelines are filled with support of others. If you’re on a blog tour, you can find them at the door waiting, even before your tour begins (and you don’t have to even offer a giveaway for most of them to follow along), and they make themselves known in the RRBC community…they engage with their fellow members. That engagement is one of the most important factors to having a successful membership within RRBC. Our supportive members have to really know you to throw the full weight of their support behind you, so don’t just slap your name on our roster, put your books in our catalog and then expect to be supported in grand fashion. It doesn’t work that way here. When you give a little, you get so much more in return!
Natasha: Everyone knows you’re a no-holds-barred kind of person. Does it bother you that you are perceived as such, or do you not mind that label at all?
Nonnie: I’m not a label-person, Natasha, and sticks and stones…right? I learned long ago that I cannot control the actions and thoughts of other people, so I don’t try. Anyone who follows me anywhere, knows that I don’t live my life based on how I am perceived by others, or what others might think of me. If you like me, great! If you don’t, well, that’s your problem…I love me! And me loving me, is all that matters. There are too many people who live their lives based on the feelings of others, and when you live that way, you can’t truly be happy. I mean, if someone is angry with you, you can’t sleep, if someone doesn’t like you, you can’t eat, if someone isn’t your friend, you have a bad day…let me make this crystal clear: I sleep, eat and have great days so I guess it’s safe to say I’m not one of these people. I have said, and will go to my grave with this, I will never give ANYONE that kind of power over my life. For those of you who have relinquished your power to others, take it back. It’s not at all worth it in the end.
Natasha: Well, that wraps up this interview! I wish we had more time with you, Ms. Jules, but we do understand that any moment away from the RRBC Corporate Offices, is a moment lost on supporting your membership, and we wouldn’t want that. Any final words?
Nonnie: Natasha, thanks for the interview, I really enjoyed it! I’d like to thank everyone who is following along and partying with us on our block party this month! Be sure to leave a comment below to get entered into our daily drawing and there are also two other stops today, so don’t forget to visit the lineup to find out where they are.
If you haven’t joined RRBC, ask yourself “What am I waiting for? Am I being truly supported out here alone or with these other clubs who offer more lip service than actual service?” I assure you, the sooner you take the leap, the better off you’ll be with the power of RRBC standing behind you!
HAVE YOU REGISTERED FOR THE WRITERS’ CONFERENCE & BOOK EXPO YET?
Well, are you being SUPPORTIVE?
Some of you might not like what I’m about to say in this blog, but you know what I say to that? Too bad, get over it and if the shoe fits, then you wear it. (If the shoe doesn’t fit, then sit back, prop your feet up and enjoy the refreshments).
During our BACK TO SCHOOL BOOK & BLOG BLOCK PARTY last September, and THE HOLIDAY TRAIN “BOOK TRAILER” BLOCK PARTY which was last December, every day tons of prizes were given away and all you had to do for a chance at winning, was to stop by a blog and leave a comment. During that time, you all showed up in droves. Many of you, every day, I might add!
Now, our BACK TO SCHOOL BOOK & BLOG BLOCK PARTY and THE HOLIDAY TRAIN “BOOK TRAILER” BLOCK PARTY have ended (until the next time), and although we still have blog tours going on for our members, such as the bi-monthly blog tours for “SPOTLIGHT” Authors, we already know before the tours begin, who’s going to show up to support. It’s always the same people, the core of RRBC, the uber-supportive, the few, super-awesome members of the RRBC family. Why have I labeled “these” members so highly? Well, they show up and leave comments when there are prizes to be won and they also show up and leave comments, when there aren’t.
We work hard supporting each other here and we also work hard putting these awesome programs into place for ALL members to enjoy, yet, it’s almost like pulling teeth when we go looking for those members deserving of the seats in the RRBC house. Sadly, they’re very hard t0 find.
For those of you who are wondering HOW members are selected to fill these seats, well, let me make it crystal clear for all. We look at each member’s support level. We look to see how they’re supporting on social media, we look at how they are doing in the reviews department, and we even take notice of how often they are supporting the blog tours and events of their fellow members.
Now, before some of you jump on your high-horse with, “Well, I work every day!” and “I’m too busy with life to just…” Notice I didn’t finish that sentence because I didn’t want to take that away from those of you who want us to know what you’re too busy with, to drop a little support every now and again around here. Once you get down, then watch me climb on my high, high horse. Now that I’m seated here comfortably, guess what? I’m pretty sure we all work every day. I know I do, and although I never leave my home for work, I spend probably 15-18 hours PER day, working here to make this place great for all of you! Any member of my board can tell you that on a good day, my days begin around 5:30 a.m. and they don’t end typically sometimes, until the next morning, between 1 a.m and 2:30 a.m…sometimes even later. I’m not asking any of you to work or even function on a schedule like mine because it’s crazy, but, if you sit in that knowledge for just a moment, then you can appreciate how much time I don’t have, yet, I still find the time to support my fellow members. I’m just one example.
We have members in our midst who have serious disabilities, but you know what, they are among our elite and our most supportive. Members who are blind, who are losing their eyesight, who have missing limbs, in wheel chairs, with brain injuries, those who suffer with debilitating diseases such as Multiple Sclerosis, Parkinsons, Lupus, etc., and yet, they are among our core of usual supporters. And if they can do it, then there shouldn’t be a hint of excuse in the rest of us. You know, the rest of us who are extra blessed to have our eyesight, to have all our limbs, to be in total control of our faculties…if they can do it, what excuse could we possibly have, for not?
Some members are even honored with RRBC seats and after they’ve taken all they can, they leave! After we have pushed them, supported them, BOUGHT THEIR BOOKS, they don’t even stick around to return the support! That’s infuriating but, we’ll save that for another blog.
Just because we’re not advertising that prizes could be won when you support a “SPOTLIGHT” Author blog tour, doesn’t mean that you won’t be a winner. You see, when you support a “SPOTLIGHT” Author blog tour, by simply stopping along the tour a couple of days during that week (you don’t have to show up every day), when you support our Member of the Month by dropping by their page and congratulating them and then joining in their #MemberOfTheMonth Monday support day on social media; when you support our Books of the Month by joining in a monthly discussion, when you tune in to our RAVE WAVES BlogTalkRadio shows and join in the conversation on Twitter during the shows, even when you drop by to show your support of a “SPOTLIGHT” Author’s “WHO’S ON THE SHELF” interview, then you are positioning yourself to hold your own fabulous RRBC seat, such as: BOOK OF THE MONTH, “SPOTLIGHT” AUTHOR, MEMBER OF THE MONTH, MEMBER OF THE WEEK, RAVE WAVES BLOGTALK RADIO GUEST, and so many more wonderful opportunities to be supported, that I wish I had the time to list here.
I’m getting off my soapbox now, because I’m getting dizzy being up so high (I really don’t know how some of you do it every day) but, let me leave you with this: RRBC is an international organization of support. You couldn’t be in the company of a more loving and giving community. Why not jump right in, get to know these people who can “push” you, “propel” you and who can be your greatest support system, already in place, when and for whatever you need. You are the only one standing in your way. We say this over and over and over again, but I guess it’s just not clicking with some of you…so, we’ll say it again and again and again…to be supported here, you HAVE TO be a supporter here. Let me put it another way: those that are most supportive here are the ones who are MOST SUPPORTED here. I really hope you got it that time, but in the event you didn’t, check out these tutorials on how to become more supportive here at RRBC:
*Writing the Almost Perfect Book Review by Beem Weeks
Take care, RRBC, and we’ll be looking for you to help us close out the month by showing your support at some of our club events, as well.
*BOOK OF THE MONTH CLUB DISCUSSION on Wednesday, 3/30/16, 11 AM Central Time (see sidebar widget for location)
If you can’t or won’t help your fellow man, then please remember, it is within your power to not hurt him, either.
We’ve been talking a lot lately about “engaging” when you visit blog sites and how important it is to leave comments. But, today we’re going to dibble just a bit on host responses to comments left on blog posts, or the lack thereof.
How many times have we seen a party of comments being left on someone’s blog post, yet the hosts themselves, never take the time to respond to any? Could that be one of the (small) reasons why people are hesitant to leave comments? Maybe they feel as if it’s a waste of their time. I must admit, that I, too, am guilty of not responding to comments left on my sites (sometimes, not always), but seriously folks, my life has changed drastically since the inception of Rave Reviews Book Club. It takes TONS OF WORK to maintain this club to its present standards, and yes, the bulk of responsibility, does at times, fall in my lap, so there are days when I can’t seem to find the time to eat or take a potty break, let alone, finding a moment to return to a blog post, which was probably written in my sleep.
Most of us lead extremely busy lives, and although we might all find this to be a very good excuse to use, it’s not. If we can take the time to write a post which we’d like for others to take the time to read (even if it was written in our sleep), then let’s show our readers the small courtesy of at least a response of some kind, if only a “THANK YOU FOR STOPPING BY!”
Personally, when I leave comments, I don’t care if I get responses to those comments or not (I don’t return to see if there are responses), but I’m not your typical Commenter. I leave comments because I feel compelled to engage in blog posts that are deserving of my opinions. So, I’m broaching this subject for the other kind hearts who take the time to engage.
I have raised my daughters to be extremely grateful for everything that is given to them, whether it’s a compliment, a piece of chewing gum, a “bless you” to a sneeze, or any courtesy which has been extended to them. WHY? Because NO ONE HAS TO GIVE YOU ANYTHING and NO ONE HAS TO DO ANYTHING FOR YOU. For those two reasons, we should all be grateful for any small courtesy pointed in our direction.
So, there you have my two cents on why it’s important for hosts of blog sites, and writers of blog posts, to always check their sites periodically or even at the end of each day, for comments from visitors. They didn’t have to stop by your site, and they surely didn’t have to take their precious time to leave a comment (we all know getting those is like pulling teeth), so let’s show our appreciation and gratitude towards those awesomely, kind hearts. KUDOS to all of you who are so much better at this than those of us who slack in this dept., but who are vowing to do better after reading this post.
Remember, their time is precious just like “hours.”
So, tell us, where do you fall in this category? Are you a slacker like me, or are you one of the greats who realize the importance of showing your gratitude to those visitors who take time out of their busy lives to share their thoughts on blog posts you’ve written? We’re all in this together, so don’t be afraid to fess up, if you need to. We’re listening…